I guess she is your full-time live-in slave, right? (this scenario wouldn't make much sense if it were online). Still I felt a bit confounded by the same lines as the two submissives above. there are hundreds of possible tasks and ways of using a subbie, different scene ideas and if she fails to mention something simply because she thought you'd never ask that, is it reasonable to punish her for not wishing to do this task (e.g. taking a piece of excrement between her lips and crawling away with it to dump it in the waste basket - just to make my point)?? Besides, okay for pushing limits, but you seem to imply a slave proper can't be allowed to have any hard limits, and even less ask you to recongnize those limits.

Moreover, if she's your r/l partner and you've got kids, how will you easily bring in another slave on short notice to do an extravagant task your normal slave doesn't wish to perform? Please clarify.