Quote Originally Posted by eden View Post
A good Dom/me may push a subs limits to help her/him grow in their submission. A good Dom/me should be able to tell when a subs limit has been reached during play. If this was your first play time together, then He may have gone too far too fast.

Don’t be afraid to use your safe word. Its your safety net and its there for a reason. I have two safe words. “NO” which means ok that’s my limit, but its still ok to continue at this level but not beyond it, and the other is “STOP” which meant exactly that.

Hugs ya.
yeah, this is my practice to. "Stop" and "no" are allready safewords in our language. Unless you've got a specific fetish about saying "no" or "stop" and the Dom keeps going. But in my experience it isn't all that common.