hrm.. I do not have nothing but respect for my wife who is also my sub. a very high respect and regard for her . She is cherished as no other.
I have a pet in wlg... She is also respected as a person, as one who is seeking to grow.
In my eyes it is neither demeaning or disrespectful to be one's pet..

If one is submissive , in my opinion , They deserve a lot of respect that raises them above others for being able to do something most could / would not do.

Sure some Doms do not give respect to their submissives.. it is part of the role they wish to be played by another and there are some subs who want that kind of role. It's not my way nor of that of those I would choose to want.

I'm sure others will have varying opinions.