I didn't say that, I said why do Dominant women only exclude sub men from sex and intimacy?

Surely as Dominant women submissive men should be way up their list as potential partners not relegated to "NO NEVER" "DON'T EVEN THINK ABOUT IT"

The fact that dom guys don't have this imposed on them and many Dominant women (who exclude sub men) will have sex with vanilla or dom men shows that it has little to do with filtering out perverts and wankers.

Unless most slimy wankers happen to be submissive which I doubt. The kind of guys you were talking about who are looking for threesomes and shows are usually chest thumping alpha males not the kind of guys to pluck up the courage to admit they are submissive.

Do you think I'm saying, dominant guys and vanilla guys are always bad, submissive guys are always good???

Have you been reading my posts??????????

I'm just politely trying talking about my situation and speculating about the whys and wherefores of the restrictions and limits that only seem to apply to men with submissive sexualities.

I'm not even moaning or upset, I'm far too accustomed to my situation for that. I'm just exploring what for me is still a confusing situation.

If this makes you uncomfortable I apologise. You don't have to read my posts, but if you do contribute please read my posts carefully as you're interpretation of what I'm writing is wrong and you are acting very defensively when all I'm doing is talking about my experiences.

Try being constructive not combative.