Do you cheat?

[Warbaby1943]

well for one thing he was my very first online Master..and he said i had no rights..i would try to argue that point with him, only to get punished..i was an object to him..a pet if you will...and remember i was horribly new..as i learned i would try and tell him the rules..he said rules weren't for him and myself.. i don't know if he cared for me or not..he never allowed me to show my personality to him..i balked at beastiality however and water sports..but he would still try to talk me into that as well..he took advantage of the fact i was and am still to a degree very naive..

isabeau6

I hope you know I was not criticizing you, I was just stating how I look at things and what I have learned in my time here. You do have rights always as far as I would be concerned and your safety should be of utmost importance to any Dom worth his salt; IMO.

Hopefully you know to run from any such person in the future unless you want to give up all your rights and that is for you to decide. Otherwise good communication and a declaration of boundaries not to be crossed is a great idea. As you grow to trust someone those boundaries can at any time be expanded but do keep your safety in mind. Just my opinion again.