Well...my journey and its total lack of well...

[tired.of.vanilla{DJ}]

Oh hang on - there was one thing you said that really shocked and concerned me -
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I hate giving her pleasure *god help me*

. Would you care to expand on that? I mean, do you really not enjoy making her cum? Does she still give you pleasure?

And I don't know what a pillow princess or a Stone Fem are, lol.

Moptop...
I don't care for going down on her. I like to make her cum. But its hard. She is very slow to orgasim and i tend to run out of energy before she gets there....with my tonge anyway. I can and do use hands to pleasure her. And I really want to make her come and give her pleasure. I just well...have seemed to turn it into a chore. I need to work on how to make that better.
a Pillow Princess or a Stone Fem is a lesbian who only wants to be serviced and to not touch her partner. I really don't think that is me. I just need to learn to find the joy in it more, and to find a way to sustain my energys.

[tessa]

What a posting! You just spilled it out all over the place. As MrDom said, very impressive!

This need you have, well, it's not lying to admit your have certain desires. Ruby commented on such. You care for your wife and don't want to hurt her, but you are trying to include her in on your desires. That's important. I hope what you want with her can become part of your relationship.

As for what you seek online, best of all to you in that. There are some wonderful people in this community. I hope you find a grand friendship in there somewhere.

tessa

ps. I can't believe you were inspired by my posts. That's really cool.

[Mishka]

Moptop...
I don't care for going down on her. I like to make her cum. But its hard. She is very slow to orgasim and i tend to run out of energy before she gets there....with my tonge anyway. I can and do use hands to pleasure her. And I really want to make her come and give her pleasure. I just well...have seemed to turn it into a chore. I need to work on how to make that better.
a Pillow Princess or a Stone Fem is a lesbian who only wants to be serviced and to not touch her partner. I really don't think that is me. I just need to learn to find the joy in it more, and to find a way to sustain my energys.

You can pm me anytime if you'd like to talk about it. I can empathize.

Is there the equiavalent of "Pillow Princess/Stone Fem" for a heterosexual male?

[Ozme52]

Is there the equiavalent of "Pillow Princess/Stone Fem" for a heterosexual male?

Nope Have you ever heard of a man who isn't willing to stick his cock into a willing orifice?

(I know that wasn't what you were implying, but that would be the hetero male equivalent action... )

[Flaming_Redhead]

Is there the equiavalent of "Pillow Princess/Stone Fem" for a heterosexual male?

Hell no! *frowns* A man who finds it a chore to pleasure his woman though receiving pleasure himself is nothing more than a selfish bastard....like my ex-husband.