I agree with Logic1. You have taking my questionaire so show it to him but first ask him to take the one for the Dom, remember to tell him that it is about what he likes to do with a sub/slave.

After he has taken it exchange them then talk it all out. There is the chance that your needs or more then he can currently handle.

I never used a flogger before morgan never felt that I could use one a another human being. I was whipped as a teen by my mother using a rubber hose cut into a cat of nine tails, still have the scars. She wanted and needed it very much so I agreed to try. She tells me I am a natural and she loved it so that I am even better today and now wonder how I could not bring myself to do this.

Oh a question are you F to F or online? It makes a difference with the physical aspects