you asked if submissive women like bullies - and both TG and i answered NO! submissive derives pleasure of submitting and pleasing. having someone who is strong enough (in mind and/or body) to be able to control and punish if necessary. the point of submission is not to feel to pain, but rather to feel pride in being able to satisfy the Dominant, to give pleasure, even if that means suffering physical pain to prove your determination to give it all to that person. For His/Her pleasure! NOT to take abuse!
Dominants are not supposed to have a problem with anger management.
Yes women in general are drawn to those that exuberate power. Mental power, physical power, wealth. Why? Because they feel that they will be taken care of! Easy. That is why powerful politicians, economical tycoons, successful athletes are sexy.
Big Baboons, swinging fists and screaming – are not.