I would be nice to see more subs who seek to please rather than be pleased.
And that is all i'm going to say on my last sentence.
As a Dom I have a bit of a concern with this. I am pleased, immensely, when my subs are pleased. It is an equal consideration. If I can please the women I play with then their pleasure heightens my own. So I, for one, want a sub that wants to be pleased.
Does pleasing your subs make you a bad dom? Not in my book.
And I don't think Mysc has mentioned that she didn't want to please her partner.