No. Change your line of thinking. Big does not equal dominant. Big just equals big. Yes, he might have been a hulking mass of hairy muscle. However, someone trained in quick bring-downs and holds, like a police officer, could probably put him on his ass in seconds. Physical strength and prowess do not equal dominance, except in a combative sense.

Dominance comes from just knowing that you can handle yourself and the people under you. It's about confidence. It's about self-esteem. It's about keeping your chin up and your bitch on the floor where she belongs.

You kick that big black guy in the kneecap and invert his patellar joint and look into his eyes while he's on the ground crying at you. Looking him in the eye shows your confidence in yourself and in your action. That measures a certain level of dominance in you. Sort of like in the wild kingdom. The bigger lion may not necessarily be the alpha cat, but the one that knows how to hendle himself will be.

See if he's dominant or if he just wants you to not hurt him anymore. BTG was in law-enforcement for awhile.



Originally posted by Kostly
In truth, this big hairy freak is MUCH more dominate then I am or ever will be... He also seems to have some ANGER issues... But I am DEFINATELY ok with bolth of thoose.