Thank you, Jade. Your explanation is a great help.

Your mistakes remind me of some made by my sub, His_pita, and me also. I think when something is new, and we want to succeed, we tend to try a bit too hard. pita has been very good lately, but our relationship doesn't allow me to push her harder either, and leaving it to her ... well, we both learn patience and trust.

Now I'll get out of your thread, but know that many of us are lurking and wish you well .... and continued success.

her_Joe