Quote of BDSM Tourguide

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....it is about ~knowing~...


I have to say that sums up being Dominant. You either know, or you do not. It is the mental state, the confidance in yourself and your own strength; not physical mass, that defines you as Dominant.

Huge guys with lots of muscles may have physical power, but that does not make them Dominant.

Kostly, the man you met, (using the term in its broadest possible scope based soley upon the fact he is homosapien sapien and male in gender) was as you said, a bully. Bullying has nothign at all to do with Domination. It has to do with apathy. One has to wonder if a person with such a mentality that they must force respect fromthose about them should be disdained or pitied. But definately not charming.

Oh, one more point Kostly, the bestt thing you cna do is stand up to a bully, it deprives them of thier coerced self importance. And, *grin*, even if they hit you it will only hurt til the pain stops anyway.

just my deranged pair of pennies.