Kostly, I have to appologise. You did do the right thing by not playing the idiot's game the way he wanted. I was not trying to belittle the threat to you that you put yourself in at all. I forget myself sometimes, in my profession we suffer minor pains all the time and thus that is a bit of joking jargon that I passed on. I definatley do not want to see anyone hurt permanently. Though I do beleive in the narcotic effect of dark humor, it works for me and my crushed foot anyway.
But more on track with the thread. You did not meet a Dom, you met a dumb, and there really is nothing as tragic as a dumb. *sigh* But the world dos seem to have a preponderance of them.