Quote Originally Posted by Sir_Russell View Post
Lets see if we can get back to point. We all feel what she is going through, frustration because our partner isn't quite or a lot not what we expected. The time and sessions it takes for the D/s to find common ground can be hard on the nerves.
Erm and that was not my point. Again I do not feel or think my partner is lacking, I do not feel or think he should move faster, and I am not expecting more then he can handle... but that is not the way I can temper my urge, it's like an internal whirlwind and I'm (with all my reason and knowledge *ehum*), at that point, external and just have to sit it out.

Secondly was the fear of overwhelming and balancing the information stream.

I can see why it comes across like that tho SirRussel.. I apologise for that. My mind was racing at the moment I wrote that down...