Kink or lifestyle?

[tessa]

The kinky sex is fanfreakingtastic. But it is the non-sexual aspects of the bond that give the kinky sex its meaning.

Right there! `points` That's it exactly! You said that just like I wanted to, only lots better, muse. I'm glad I read through threads before I post my thoughts. Kinda like wearing the same exact outfit to the party...

Submissiveness, can be, but doesn't have to be anything sexual. I'm probably just reiterating what already has been said, and everybody already knows. But anyway.

Ok, this too! Yay for "anyway"! Hey, Tom? Does this same thought apply to Dominants as well? I'm not being sarcastic, in case you're thinking that. It's a serious question.

As far as the spectrum - it's helpful to have some knowledge of where you are today, but be open to moving along that spectrum as you learn more about yourself.

All right, you brilliant people are overwhelming me. Please keep it up?

BTW, it's a beautiful day.

You said it, jeanne. ~huggles~