I have a buddy system. Also, my house is selling in a month so I have the luxury of bringing him home (I have roommates) next time....without worrying about him knowing where i live for much longer.

Unfortunately, I dont know any other subs that have been alone with him. Perils of online "dating"....

I'm getting hints and rumors of "parties" and other gatherings/public events for meeting potential doms. Anyone have more details?