Why did you join this Forum?

[cariad]

Oh, I know why I joined - Uncle Ed nagged; bullied; put my arm behind my back and marched me in screaming for mercy. And then he threatened me with rhubarb stick insisted that I came back for more.

[Logic1]

Oh, I know why I joined - Uncle Ed nagged; bullied; put my arm behind my back and marched me in screaming for mercy. And then he threatened me with rhubarb stick insisted that I came back for more.

and then 2 seconds later you were hooked

[cariad]

Seriously - two seconds later I was terrified. Was like walking into a party where everyone knew each other, and I knew nobody. However I took the plunge - or was I pushed - and started posting, had my ego massaged by a few nice Doms saying nice things - and then I was hooked.

The only thing I am yet to find is the exit door...it has to be here somewhere.....

cariad

[gagged_Louise]

The only thing I am yet to find is the exit door...it has to be here somewhere.....

cariad

I've heard they hid that door behind a locker full of whips and paddles. Never found it either...

[Uncle_Ed]

Oh, I know why I joined - Uncle Ed nagged; bullied; put my arm behind my back and marched me in screaming for mercy. And then he threatened me with rhubarb stick insisted that I came back for more.

Aww...you say the nicest things, angel...*grins-teeth gleaming*

[Sheilu]

I joined because I know what I'm doing for half of the time... The other half, I know what I'm doing for a fourth of the time.

[Noontide]

I joined because I know what I'm doing for half of the time... The other half, I know what I'm doing for a fourth of the time.

And so on Ad Infinitum.... though thats how i feel on a whole lotta days!!!

[sub-butterfly]

Hi, I joined this forum because I am very new to this and wanted to get some help and advice on doing the right thing for my partner. He is my boyfriend as well as my Dom and we also are currently living together but not in a 24/7 relationship. I would like some advice from other subs on their experiences of their fall.

Thanks

Butterfly

[Austerus]

*gasp* A thread I haven't posted in?

*stomp stomp stomping mud into the nice carpet*

I joined the forum because it's been too long since I have been involved with a BDSM community outside the tiny tiny one that exists inside my house and the large, twisted one that exists inside my head. I missed the warmth and humor and sense of community of the types that would make my older, more conservative relatives faint and/or disown me.

I also decided to start flinging words to page like a monkey slinging poop, and it's always nice to have an audience who is willing to point and laugh at the silly monkey.

[Logic1]

Hi, I joined this forum because I am very new to this and wanted to get some help and advice on doing the right thing for my partner. He is my boyfriend as well as my Dom and we also are currently living together but not in a 24/7 relationship. I would like some advice from other subs on their experiences of their fall.

Thanks

Butterfly

much welcome here butterfly.
fall of the subs lol
I would rather call it their rise into joyous events

[painspleasure]

hi

i joined this site (only yesterday) as i am newly into a M/s relationship and wanted somewhere where i felt comfortable talking or listening to people who are also involved, somewhere where i wont be judged.

i hope as my confidence improves to post to the forums on a regular basis, i may not have a wealth of experience but its always interesting to hear others opinions.

tori

[White Rabbit]

I am just entering into the BDSM scene, though I've been playing privately for a few months. I'd love to learn more from experienced people; what works, what doesn't. Maybe find someone in my area to get a coffee with or something (I'm not for sale though, currently owned by The Tigress). I'm excited to experiment with just about anything, the world awaits!

[princess_of_pain]

Welcome painspleasure & White Rabbit.

I kind of feel that this place is the virtual, BDSM version of Hotel California:

You can check out any time you like
But you can never leave

Of course I mean that in the best possible way.

[crazy_grrluk]

well what can I say??? I am disappointed with myself for not posting here and here I am almost at the 20k mark... bad bad cg *hangs my head low*

I have been in this lifestyle that we all love and cherish for 10 years real time now. Only seems like yesterday I discovered why i was "different"
I joined this forum to learn...to read about other peoples experiances...to offer help as and when needed and also to share my own experiances.
I am slave to my Master Sadistic1.

hello and a big welcome to everyone who has joined this wonderful lil community

cg

[denboy]

And what keeps you coming back?

These are two questions that I would like a response to. As I am going thru member profiles to check on birthdates I am noticing a lot of what I call one day wonders---people who join for one day and never return. So I am on a quest to find out why some members do this while other do not.

Maybe thru member input we can make this a more friendly place to new members.


Thanks

hi
I think some are unsure ,that to let others know that they are into kinky things ,they like reading the stories and as it been said are shy hoping that they can communicate at a later date.
this is my first time expressing myself about my submissiveness to anyone,but I hope to open out more in time and make friends at the same time,but who knows...

[angelic.zest]

welcome to everyone!

[seriouslynosn]

I joined this forum a year ago in the hopes of finding a Dom for me to aggravate (only the way S/He would like of course). Then I disappeared for a while due to some hardships in my life. I lost interest in everything I enjoyed (even sex!). My first return was after my ex and I got back together. I was hoping to morph him into some sort of Dom that he isn't. Of course, that didn't work very well.

Well, now I'm back. I'm still with my nonDom boyfriend, but I'm learning slowly what it was that drew me to him. He might be a bit vanilla in bed (although he loves to bite, scratch, and squeeze) and it bothered me for a while. Until I realized that the initial thing I enjoyed about him was his calm, his dignity, and his way of making me feel safe. He doesn't exactly understand the world of bdsm, but I'm willing to live this version.

And so here I am, enjoying the relationship I have for what it is. But I also realize there are things being unfulfilled. I feel I can get the support I need with this group.

And so I'm back!

A little about me: I love to go on and on about myself. There's a link to my blog in my profile that will prove it. I consider myself to be The Supreme Ruler of all the land (only to be knocked off my pedestal whenever my love deems fit). I'm always up for a chat, but I have been conditioned to not speak until spoken to. If you expect to chat with me you have to let me know.

Some say that I'm smart. I'm not sure that I believe them, but I am currently working on my PhD at the University of Washington for computational chemistry. I like long ridiculously difficult math problems only done via computer coded calculation programs.

I enjoy politics, music, movies, reading, writing, math, logic puzzles, painting, sewing, cooking, and sex. I'm going through hobby withdrawal since I just moved to Seattle with my Man in my tiny Saturn and three cats. There was not much room for much more than the computers and some clothes.

I can't spell to save my life. I have already fixed about fifty errors Mozilla is nice enough to point out for me. I'm always hot, unless it is cold. Then I'm freezing. I love fresh tea, especially rose bud. You can use it as a bath perfume as well!

I guess that's enough.....sorry about the long winded post. I told you I love to go on and on!

[princess_of_pain]

Welcome back seriouslynosn! So glad you decided to return.

Some say that I'm smart. I'm not sure that I believe them, but I am currently working on my PhD at the University of Washington for computational chemistry. I like long ridiculously difficult math problems only done via computer coded calculation programs.

Holy cow, that qualifies as "smart" in my book!

I enjoy politics, music, movies, reading, writing, math, logic puzzles, painting, sewing, cooking, and sex. I'm going through hobby withdrawal since I just moved to Seattle with my Man in my tiny Saturn and three cats. There was not much room for much more than the computers and some clothes.

You've come to the right place when it comes to political discussions & sex!

Lucky duck, gettin' to live in Seattle--provided you actually want to live there, of course. I bet you just need a little time and you'll find your groove. Can't wait the "hear" more from ya!

[serpentouflard]

Hi guys,
I join this forum because I like everything about bdsm

I'll try to share some good links with you

cheers

[rach]

I joined the forum about 2.5 years ago because as I wanted to learn about something I realised I needed in my life- but wasn't really sure exactly what I was looking for. I found far more than I had hoped for and have had a much more fulfilling time here than I ever expected when I first joined!

[KateHeld]

The erotically captivating stories led me here at first. I'm trying to explore the site as I go along. Another reason was to play online with other women. I'm a submissive so I'd love to be their snatched little slave. I can be a painslut's toy or a domme's pet. Doesn't matter, but the idea of being bound, gagged, blindfolded and being reduced to a toy by another female makes me feel tingly inside. There's a slight embarrasement to it but it also adds to the tingly feeling.

[NikkiKat]

Honestly, I typed in a search for "BDSM Chatrooms" and this site was one of the first results. Ever since I've lost contact with my D/s friends, I've felt disconnected with a part of my life.

In order to feel more connected with the lifestyle, I searched for a chatroom, and it seems I've found a forum as well!

It is already obvious to me that I will not be a "one day wonder." From the rules of the forum to the everyday conversations, this is my kind of place.

-Nikki

[Chromie]

I just joined the site today and am already pleased that I have. I am new to the lifestyle and am looking to learn more and be able to serve my Master properly. I am not for sale, I belong to Master John. He is quite pleased with me already for wanting to learn more. I do hope to make some wonderful friends along the way.

[deva]

why did i join in and why would i stay in the story?
well, well, well... as the poet would say.
getting older means less exitment on ordinary things. having had (only ) two s/m relationships, and holding the souvenir dear, i feel it's time to come back in a space which was not only unnecessary at the time but also a bit scary
"it's just that demon life which hold us in it's sway".
in other words, ordinary sex got boring and before leaving the story alone, it's time to explore a bit more of the poetic.
bowing to you, deva

[pstpat]

First of all, thank you for the happy birthday I received from you.

The questions you ask,for some maybe a simple answer. I am, lets just say 40ish, and have been married for 17 years. "Vanilla" sex holds no excitment. But trying to figure out where you want to be is another whole story. I have a good job that I have a lot of control over a lot of people, but would like, no maybe the word for it is "need" to let someone else take control every so often. My husband would be more than happy to let me take control of our sex life or take control himself. He is up for anything as long as sex is involved. As far as submission, I think maybe the idea of it has more appeal to me the actually submitting. So some of us out here are just looking to change.

[segelgirl]

I joined because I have a lot of questions and had no where to go for answers. I thought that talking to others more experienced in this lifestyle that until now I have only fantasized about would help me decide where to go from here. I guess I'll keep coming back until all my questions are answered.

[~faerie~]

I have been interested for a while and did some experimenting with a long time partner. Which unfortunately didn't work out, and we are no longer together. I'm just looking to meet some new people and learn a little bit more about what I want and how to blend it into the life I have.

[deva]

hello, a new member, and a bit why.
male, white, french, post graduate in demography, sociology and litterature.
in other words a lucky amateur who managed to spend over 30 years out of europe, mainly in india where i spent 25 years of my life.
what a freedom! mostly in goa, of course and 11 years with the sex guru osho (rajneesh) learning meditation his way.
i have a poor experience of bdsm, only two relationships this way. a lot to learn.
back in france, teaching tai-chi and organising parties,(trance) i feel older and less and less captivated by straight sex. time to move on.
well, enough for today, deva

[Thestral]

I needed a place to "get away from it all". Take my hair down, go barefoot, read, talk, enjoy about a part of my life I only discovered a few years ago.

I do have a Dom, (a lovely one, too but He's not here...yet), and have had the rare opportunity to switch.

I like what I see and hope to get to know you, or as many of you as is reasonable, very well.

[biluriess]

I'm looking for ways to explore my desires. I've been into self-bondage as long as I can remember. I switch and like both genders, but am not social enough to actually find partners. As the chat rooms are shut down, I need to find new places to get ideas.