forgive me, my Superiors for wishing to offer my opinion, but I share the same view as another submissive who posted.

I know that when I am stressed (from work etc) I love nothing more than a severe beating, it completely relaxes the mind.

From my own experience, I would imagine that if a submissive said those things to a Domme, she would simply say "let me know when you want to submit to me again" and otherwise IGNORE HIM.