I hope no one minds if I post... I noticed no one has for a couple of months but I just read the thread and was very interested. I can see where they are connected. It makes sense to me, and explains why more than likely we want to try it. I am a Christian. By calling myself a Christian I am in no way claiming to be perfect. Nor have I ever seen in the Bible that God wants us to be perfect. He wants us to follow Him, but He also knows we are human. I was thinking about this situation the other night, and actually prayed about it. My husband and I want to experiment in the BDSM lifestyle, but I will not compromise my beliefs. I thought about this for quite sometime. No where (at least that I have seen, if I am wrong then I am sorry) in The Bible that I have seen does it say that a husband and wife should not enjoy sex or an orgasm. As many of you have said, as long as it is only between husband and wife there is no reason this is against God, or the Bible. And if I were to walk away from my religion right now, I would still go to heaven because I am saved. I know there are many people who do not share these views, but this is how I feel.