Quote Originally Posted by Naomisagoodgirl
tessa, your mini bar joke rocked.
I wish I could take the credit, but that thanks belongs to jeanne.

Quote Originally Posted by Ozme52
There is a middle road. And a whole lot of submissives who relish it, crave it... and don't get to participate in it.
So true.

Quote Originally Posted by Rhabbi View Post
First off, I would never break a subs hard limits, though I occasionally push them.
Is there ever a reason to push hard limits? If they're indeed hard limits, are they to be pushed? I'm not looking to argue or debate. I'm just really curious about this idea.

Also, if forgetfulness is at the root of the "accidental disobedience", perhaps the sub could make a list of what is to be done and refer to it often? Might help. Just a thought.

And as this is a CR thread, bless all y'all's hearts who are going through it and I hope it comes to a successful end soon.