Dear Ruby,
It is so nice to read such a detailed and thought provoking description of your decisions to include Nathaniel in your life. I always enjoy the fantasies of having a third person in the mix but was quite unsure how to cover the real life aspect of having a third person in the marriage bed. You and T have included Nathaniel in such a warm friendly way, yet you do have limits that were openly discussed between the three of you. I was quite delighted that you were open about the “fantasy Ruby” and real life Ruby.
Thank you for the clarification of how the limits were set and information on outercourse.
You as always have my respect and I think you are amazing, Jasmine