Quote Originally Posted by Ma_am View Post
One thing to bear in mind is that all Masters/Mistresses are different, we react differently depending on our personalities, just like every other human being on the planet. Personally, I would want my sub to confess to me that she had disobeyed my order. I shouldn't have to ask if she did what I told her, It is assumed that she followed my order...If she disobeyed me and I found out some way other than her telling me directly I would be disappointed and hurt. Disappointed that she did not follow my instructions, and hurt that she did not trust me or respect me enough to confess her transgression.

As I said this is just my opinion...every Dom/me will have their own take on the situation, but I'm going to advise that you tell your Master, don't make it the first thing that is said...get the hello's out of the way first but tell him. Good luck.
Ma_am, are you my female twin, separated at birth or something?
That is exactly my opinion.
Honesty and openness and discussions are important. I know for myself that the worst thing a sub can do to me is lie. That is something I simply dont accept. Disappointment and hurt is what I feel then.
Failure I can accept if she is open with it and especially if I know that the task is hard for her.
Better to fail and be open about it than fail and lie about doing it and me finding out afterwards.
The punishment for the two are completely different. One might not even lead to a punishment if the explanation is good and the other has a harsh one attached to it.