Thank you, everyone. I think - for most people - it's inate. For me, and I think for some of you, there is a dividing line of sorts between when you were vanilla and your discovery of D/s, although I also see that, for others, they recognised it very early and did not have to suppress it in order to cope with the rest of the world's "morality".

I wonder how many more of us there are out there who have not discovered themselves, or who are suppressing it.