BDSM at first sight

[newby]

Good question. i am wearing leather & cuffs, etc to a halloween party my Man & i are attending. We wont be there together & none of our friends even know we are a couple. i was wondering if people will look at me & think "naughty costume" or "lifestyle".

[annie]

Good question. i am wearing leather & cuffs, etc to a halloween party my Man & i are attending. We wont be there together & none of our friends even know we are a couple. i was wondering if people will look at me & think "naughty costume" or "lifestyle".

Well since I'm in the "lifestyle" I would probably make a smart remark about it just to see your reaction to try and help me determine if you were or weren't. Basically unless you are in involved in it all ready I personally don't think anyone would think anything of it other then a costume.