BDSM at first sight

[Isabelle90]

But it would entirely depend on how the couple behaves in public. The subtle signs.

What would you expect to see? What if it is not a couple and just an individual?

Just because a person is dressed Goth, I don't think it would be a fair assessment to assume they are into the lifestyle. Do you know what I mean?

[annie]

What would you expect to see? What if it is not a couple and just an individual?

Just because a person is dressed Goth, I don't think it would be a fair assessment to assume they are into the lifestyle. Do you know what I mean?

Honestly, when I responded I wasn't thinking a thing about dress, etc. What I was thinking of was the subtle signs. One couple for example he ALWAYS holds the door, ALWAYS orders for her, etc., even in public. Seeing one of those by themselves I might think, "oh what a polite gentleman." Seeing several of those types of behaviors though would certainly mark them in mind as being a D/s couple. Or would at least make me wonder.

If you were to add to that her wearing a collar, Him touching her in a certain fashion, etc. that would be an even larger signal.

As I said, would depend on the couple. As far as a single person... much harder to determine and probably not as possible, at least not for me.

(All of this is of course assuming I am ACTUALLY paying attention and not distracted beyond belief... lol)