Nope....not in a million years. When I see someone wearing a collar or choker, I assume that they are Goth and have absolutely no idea what it means. Someone wearing leather is probably a motocycle rider and nothing more. If you saw me and my dom at Longhorn, you'd see him buttering and serving me the brown bread. I wear a sterling silver collar and had an older lady at the nail salon comment that it was a "true" collar necklace and quite beautiful. I wondered if she knew....