Quote Originally Posted by Sir_Russell View Post

Life is way to short for me to want to play childish games or games that I can't win, ie mind reading. Be honest first with yourself about the reasons you test, we all have faults and short comings, if you expect a perfect Dom I just don't know of one.
You are absolutely right, Sir Russell. My experience with Doms has been 90% online. As I'm sure you know, there are many, many "wannabes" out there who call themselves Doms but are far from it. I can't tell you how many times I've been approached in a chat room by a "Dom" demanding that I call him Sir immediately, and throwing orders my way expecting me to follow them when I've just met him! I guess my guard is up a bit and I test to see if a Dom is really a Dom and not just some horny top who wants to call me nasty names while he cyber fucks me. Apparently, I've been looking in all the wrong places.