Quote Originally Posted by The Tigress View Post
I identify as a Caring Dominant.

It's taken the last few years for me to really encrease my own opinion of myself. I am a dominant, attractive, intelligent young woman, I can proudly say this. At times I still fret over my own shortcomings, but who doesn't?

That said, my sub is worth his weight in gold. He is charming, attractive, intelligent, warm and sexy, downright fuckable 24/7. I have a huge wish that he'll see himself, that he is worth my love, and that of our awesome friends and family.

He is my slut and my pet, with love. I whip and cane him, with caring. I lash him and purr his names, not because I consider him pathetic, or deserving of maltreatment. Our kink relationship comes from the deep bond, release and greater understanding of who we are that comes from any play we enjoy.

Am I some kind of wussy dominant, because I want my sub to love himself as much as I do? I have the greatest respect for him. I personally feel that as a dominant, I want a sharp mind, strong body, a charming person... it is true pleasure to have him submit to me, because I see him as a person of great worth.


Question:
does your dominant help your self-esteem? Or do his/her words and actions, while still pleasurable, convince/teach you to feel worse about yourself?
Awe..*hugs* I can see from ur words you have ur sub best interests at heart, as any caring, loving Dominant should, he seems to be in the best of hands with you, I wish he could see how worthy he is as a sub, and ur pet, and for him to know his submisson means the world to you...

As for my own self-esteem my Dominant is very new at the whole.."building" and "training" but thankfully I know my worth and what my submission means to him and how its a gift that shouldn't be taken for granted, and even though I'm still new with exploring my own submission I do know his actions have meaning and caring behind them!

I wish you and ur sub the very best!!