I also do not think caring for your sub and wanting him to feel good about himself makes you wussy. To me, it makes you a great Domme!

From my personal experience, my Master makes me feel so damn good about myself. He worked hard early in our relationship to make me see myself as he sees me. Regardless of what may happen in the future, that will be one of the greatest gift anyone has ever given to me.

I also feel that a sub who feels good about themselves, will also feel good about being a sub! It is knowing my submission is treasured and not just taken for granted, that means the world to me.

Keep up the great job you are doing.