Quote Originally Posted by Aussiegirl1 View Post
One point I meant to mention in my post was that I didn't go looking for the relationship I have with my Master. I wasn't even looking for a Master, it all just happened so naturally.

Would I have gone in search of an online relationship like the one I have - most likely not. But then, I had no idea of how powerful it could be. I admit to being very lucky in that WB is so good at communication. I can see how online could be very frustrating with someone who is not a good communicator.

I do also hope to get more in the flesh BDSM experience, and agree online is not the same, but it is what you make of it too. For me, the relationship I have came at a time where I was feeling like love had left me behind and I had nothing to offer anyone. So for me, it is just what I needed. A loving, caring relationship with a man who is proud to be my Master.

I really feel different situations suit different people at different times. What I have learnt these past two years is to not close my mind to any possibilities. In other words, don't say " Oh I could never do online.... " because you may miss out on a wonderful experience.

To me, it is the person who makes the relationship, not if it is online or not. Would I love to be in the flesh with my Master, sure I would, but I am not going to dwell on what I am missing. I would much rather enjoy every moment we have and make the most of it.
<nods> My mind Always remains Open <smiles>. Possibilities in Life and Love from my perspective are endless. Online Relating can be very usefull in many ways. That You are able to keep from "dwelling" or focusing on what is missing with Your *M* is great. But You seem also willing and interested in persuing a RT Relationship with someone, should the possibility present itself with someone with whom You may have interest in persuing?

A lot of my interest in this topic is in regards to Those who cannot do this, or even see a difference in these 2 methods of Relating, or seperate them. Those who Choose to consider their online Relationship(s) as their Only Relationship(s). And the Really scarrey *to me* ones, who actually expect to Control and monopolize a persons real Time Life through a computer. Even when one makes it clear what one is seeking is an Online Relationship.

Granted that any Relationship has a possibility of moving to RT IF the Parties and their Partner(s) (if they have them) Agree. I also know of times this has happened when the Other(s) of online Relationship(s) did not Agree. But what I know of those, were PPL whose pre-exisiting Relationship(s) were already fallen apart, and they were seeking another RT Partner.

Everyones different <soft smiles>.

Respectfully~SidheWolf