Quote Originally Posted by sidhewolf View Post
<nods> My mind Always remains Open <smiles>. Possibilities in Life and Love from my perspective are endless. Online Relating can be very usefull in many ways. That You are able to keep from "dwelling" or focusing on what is missing with Your *M* is great. But You seem also willing and interested in persuing a RT Relationship with someone, should the possibility present itself with someone with whom You may have interest in persuing?

A lot of my interest in this topic is in regards to Those who cannot do this, or even see a difference in these 2 methods of Relating, or seperate them. Those who Choose to consider their online Relationship(s) as their Only Relationship(s). And the Really scarrey *to me* ones, who actually expect to Control and monopolize a persons real Time Life through a computer. Even when one makes it clear what one is seeking is an Online Relationship.

Granted that any Relationship has a possibility of moving to RT IF the Parties and their Partner(s) (if they have them) Agree. I also know of times this has happened when the Other(s) of online Relationship(s) did not Agree. But what I know of those, were PPL whose pre-exisiting Relationship(s) were already fallen apart, and they were seeking another RT Partner.

Everyones different <soft smiles>.

Respectfully~SidheWolf
Yes I would be interested in experiencing a BDSM relationship that is not just online, but that doesn't mean I would not get involved in another online one either. To me, it would be great to have a bit of both. I think it helps to know I am a bit of a loner at times and really enjoy time spent doing things on my own. It think too this is why online or even partly online suits me so much.

The real joy of the past two years, apart from being on my wonderful D/s journey, has been the renewed belief in myself. This has come through my online experiences, so I can view them in a very positive way. I know other people have not had such positive online experiences too.

I am not sure what you mean about people who think they can control someone's Real time life. WB has some control over my offline life, as in my tasks I do for him. I know of other long term, online couples where the Dom has much more control in the daily lifes of their subs. I think it just depends on the nature of the relationship.