i think especially being a sub i do say no mostly to the things i don't want to admit i like or want that can make me feel embarrassed.. Or when i want to be a tease ...

If you and your Dom/me have a safe word then that is the only word that should stop play... As it is an agreement you already have...

Acknowledging no when it is not the safe word.. will only make the two of you miss out.... thus making a disappointing situation out of one that could be so good...

Just my opinion

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snowflake