Yes we goo but it isn't something I would want right before play. That is not the mindset I want to be in it is something totally different. When we snuggle on the couch at night we goo. I actually think I pur when he pets my head lol. It is one of my most favorite things ever lol. I need this connection to submit to him I do agree with that without this type of bonding I would not want to submit. I just don't want the two mixed. When we go to play I want him to be demanding, and take what he wants (most of the time lol) then after we can revert back to the goo.