Quote Originally Posted by blythespirit View Post
Is it just me, or is it normal for a Dom to neglect to contact his sub for over a week?

To me that sounds rather inconsiderate - short of him being hospitalized (or worse). I mean how long does it take to type a short email (or make a call, if they have your number, of course?) to let you know they won't be available for a while?
Hi blythespirit

I am not sure, this is where inexperience comes in...

I am not his sub as we have only been emailing back and forth on this site, we have not exchanged emails or phone numbers.

It gets confusing because I have done tasks for him. My last task for him was applying nipple clamps with weights.
First off, he responded to my previous email that he was happy I did not do this without his consent as he wished to do this in person...then after I mentioned I was so happy he wished this also, as I to wished this...he instructed me to do it for my last task. This HURT! I think perhaps I have done it wrong. I did this task though because he instructed this and kept them on for the duration even though they hurt so bad.

I do not understand why he changed his mind about this

Again, I am not speaking wrong of him...but my understanding and knowledge thus far is not clear and I do need direction and lessons. In actuality I have very little experience to many aspects of BDSM.

Yes it has left me for a loss he did not let me know ... what? There will be no contact, no wishing a happy holidays or he would contact me around a certain date. I do know it is the Holidays, perhaps he is away, yet at the same time I let him know I was going away for 2 days.

*confused*