Quote Originally Posted by blythespirit View Post
Is it just me, or is it normal for a Dom to neglect to contact his sub for over a week?
Nope, not without forewarning.

To me that sounds rather inconsiderate - short of him being hospitalized (or worse). I mean how long does it take to type a short email (or make a call, if they have your number, of course?) to let you know they won't be available for a while?
One wonders about underlying motivations and the conflicts and demands of "real life" if the interest in the bdsm is not out in the open. It's one of the reasons I try to be very open and up front about my personal situation before getting started.

While being so forthright has its drawbacks... when you find someone who can live within your boundaries... and mayhaps even has similar boundaries, it makes the connections even stronger.