*hugsssssssss you tight.* Knowing from experience that vanilla men would/are the same way. (Hubby and I have had the same conversation about my never starting it (among other things)... as i'm standing there in slut heels and garters non the less... *rme*)

Not sure what other advice there is to give. Glad you were able to vent though. I do have to say... a red flag or 40 went up in your telling of the account, so please please please be careful!

Hugssss tight again!