It's funny Polaris, Draco and i talked last night after we both left our respective messages for you and i said to her "you know, we are only getting one side of this". Neither one of us doubt that he's a bad person. Sometimes good people make mistakes, there's nothing wrong with that. i left that very long (very long) post to try and convey that i understood where your head was at and how what is going on in your relationship can be damaging even though neither of you means for it to be. i really hope that my suggestions helped and that the two of you are able to work past this.