Quote Originally Posted by Nothinggood View Post
This came up after she saw me with my last sub. My little one had managed to stab a rather large thorn into her foot, in the back yard. I immediately picked her up, put her on the couch, and checked the foot. I do things like this constantly, I see no reason for the people I care about to be in any unnecessary pain or displeasure. But my roommate seems to think that this interferes with me being a Dom.

She has said that if she didn't know me personally, she would never believe I was a Dom. So, my question is this. Does me being generally giving and helpful preclude me being a good Dom. I have little intention of changing me self, as I like who I am, but I would like some other opinions.

Thanks in advance.
I honestly wouldn't want to submit to someone who wouldn't treat me like that. To me, being a Dom means taking responsibility for someone, and that means being there for them when they need nurturing and not just when they need discipline.

I kind of feel bad for people who seem to not want their partner (male or female) to treat them with love and respect. It seems like a sign of really low self worth.