Some Basic Safety Tips For Online Relationships

[Aesop]

I hope no submissive says it that way. They just might find a crop across their ass.

Seriously, can a submissive be considered trained; ever? What I mean to say is, aren't we to be learning continuously? Trained in oneor more area(s) maybe, but not in another. Really, CAN a sub ever be said to be trained? I find that I put my all into pleasing my Dom only to be told that I am lacking. It is very discouraging.

Fully trained? I doubt it. But who wants that anyway? I'd hate to think of my submissive as fully trained because that means I haven't come up with anything new. As for you being told you're lacking - What is the dom doing to help you along? I mean if I tell my submissive she's lacking in something, the next thing I tell her is how I want it corrected and give her motivations for doing so. Telling her she's lacking without providing a way for her to improve is just going to cut her self-esteem for no reason.