Quote Originally Posted by ozme52
So we're all more or less saying the same thing... from both sides of the slash. (/)
Thanks for bringing up that slash Oz. Reminds me of something else to look out for.

Guys who insist on T/this.

The slash typing thing is really a pet peeve with me and I say that up front because it's not always a good reason to back off. The thing that drives me bats about it is that nobody can possibly talk that way. I mean when you're out with your guy to you say W/we? Of course not. You can't. Now I've known some good people who use this because of how they were introduced into BDSM so like I say it's not always and indicator that you should split, but if you're chatting with some guy on IM and write, "I was wondering what you do for a living." and he gets upset because you didn't write, "i was wondering what You do for a living." you might want to seriously consider your situation. To me that always smacks of insecurity on the dom's part and there is very little in our world more dangerous than an insecure dom.