Quote Originally Posted by submissivewife
Thanks Nikki, you are right! So far everyone is right. BUT once you get attached to a Dom how do break the bond? I have grown to love him and I am torn between what my heart says and what my head says. AND everything everyone has said here has backed up everything my head is telling me. ONLY, how in the hell does one break that kind of bond?
Attachment is hard to break, and I know from experience. Some attachments are addictive and intense.

You have to ask your self this, am I mistaking attachment for love or security?

If you truly want to step away, you will find it easier to do than you think.

The litmus test:

Who comes first? You and your kids or him?

What are you getting out of this?

Have you developed an addiction to D/s relationships or truly the man?

Once you decide what's best for Kelly, send a dear john email, and block all communiques. I know you'd never be cruel, but a rejected man can be, so, take necessary steps.

It is not easy to start over, but there are lots of responsible and fulfilling doms out there. Take it slower. You are learning the difference between a good dom and a bad dom. Well, let's just say you have more experience with the latter.

Once you meet a good one, Kelly, you'd be the best little subbie in the world for him.