Some Basic Safety Tips For Online Relationships

[Tojo]

Thanks Tojo. I don't feel proud of my self. I feel awful. Fighting the urge to call, email, and IM him are hard. I am trying to stay strong. Since I sent him the email I have felt as though a weight has been lifted. But my heart still aches. I know this will get better but right now it is hard for me.

Thanks Ruby, I think your great. Your encouragement is, as always, appreciated.

subwife

From what I've seen s/m, there's a few people who care about you on this forum- make the most of it. Might be time to get some support instead of giving it?

Oh & it won't get better in a big hurry, sad to say- anyone who says time heals all wounds probably isn't divorced or been through too many devastating breakups.

Here's where you find who your true friends are, speaking of 'acid tests'!

All the best,

Tojo

[Ruby]

Oh & it won't get better in a big hurry, sad to say- anyone who says time heals all wounds probably isn't divorced or been through too many devastating breakups.
Tojo

Wise words there, Tojo!

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submissivewife,

Stay strong and please give yourself some time to mourn the relationship that could have been, but wasn't.

Hope each day gets a little easier and the urge to contact him turns into the desire to do something else for yourself.

Big hugs and a shoulder to cry on,

Ruby

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Aesop,

Your last post really struck a nerve.

It's flattering to be contacted by a potential sub.
Then disspointing and frustrating by their "over-eager" urge to do everything at once without any type of relationship established.

Well said! Please keep those tips coming.