Quote Originally Posted by Sir_Russell View Post
Again, not really my thing.

I feel that I use building techniques I concentrate on making her feel better about herself. It does help though have control over her with just a look or word that lets her know she has disappointed me.
I don't automatically think "punishment" or have a negative reaction when pain is brought up in a post such as this one. On the contrary, to me the worst punishment imaginable is that word or look of disappointment you describe.