The Pain of Sepration form the Pain.......

[Sir_Russell]

Let me step in here and remind all the Doms that you should never use a pain causing implement on a sub without first using it on the Dom in the exact same way he will use it on the sub. This will allow the Dom to use the paddle, whip, cane or whatever with a lot more respect for what the sub is induring to please him

[thrall]

Let me step in here and remind all the Doms that you should never use a pain causing implement on a sub without first using it on the Dom in the exact same way he will use it on the sub. This will allow the Dom to use the paddle, whip, cane or whatever with a lot more respect for what the sub is induring to please him

I agree with you. Its always good to know exactly the way something feels before you use it on others.........

[Whippett]

Let me step in here and remind all the Doms that you should never use a pain causing implement on a sub without first using it on the Dom in the exact same way he will use it on the sub. This will allow the Dom to use the paddle, whip, cane or whatever with a lot more respect for what the sub is induring to please him

too right Russell!!! A lot more respect and a much better knowledge of what not to do with the implement as well.

I actually extend that to some bondage gear as well. I won't use a new set of suspension cuffs until I've tried them myself - in the same manner I'm going to use them on my girl. I have a decent grasp of physiology - and I feel I will be able to tell if what I'm using or how I'm using it can cause physical issues (aggravating repetitive strain injury for example). If I have the option, I prefer to try them where I buy them - but the suspension gear available locally is over-priced and not very good quality, so I've been buying new gear from a couple of people in the US who do really nice work, and who I'm more than happy to recommend if anyone want s the names (PM me).

And sometimes it backfires...lol...I needed help with one set of cuffs - and had a playful sub with spunk - once she had me at her mercy - she pulled down my pants and me a right royal going over with the quirt. Payback later was sweet - but we both had a good laugh over it.