Quote Originally Posted by just_annie View Post
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If it is a relationship worth saving then what you need to do is get her into counseling with you to work out the issues on it. Such as:

"why did she feel the need to do that?"
"Was it sexual based or emotionally based?" (yes, there is a difference)
"how can we prevent this trap in the future?"
"how can we rebuild the trust?"
Great questions, Annie, and great advice, too.