Quote Originally Posted by **D** View Post
Its cheating if you spend time and energy away from the person you are with.
No more fishing or golf (or any solo hobby) for you. Especially considering surveys show most men golf for no other reason.
To play with someone online, you should spend that time and energy with the person you are with or what is the point in being with them
And NO friends outside of people who are friends of both. No outside interests for either of you... only those things you are both willing to do.
oh and for the people that say they are with vanilla partners , everybody can be changed it just takes time
Huh? In that case, it's pretty presumptuous of you to presume it should be the vanilla partner who changes?