Surrender

[Sir_Russell]

J-Go

First, in a good relationship we do belong to each other and D/s is no exception.

I have a saying "a Dom without a sub is not a Dom" few get it but I stand by it and think it works for the sub too. Each person needs what the other has and offers to complete the other.

Just enjoy

[DowntownAmber]

J-Go

First, in a good relationship we do belong to each other and D/s is no exception.

I have a saying "a Dom without a sub is not a Dom" few get it but I stand by it and think it works for the sub too. Each person needs what the other has and offers to complete the other.

Just enjoy

Thank you Sir Russell. As does J-Go, I also appreciate your insight and experience.

[GearJammer]

J-Go

First, in a good relationship we do belong to each other and D/s is no exception.

I have a saying "a Dom without a sub is not a Dom" few get it but I stand by it and think it works for the sub too. Each person needs what the other has and offers to complete the other.

Just enjoy

I grew up in a rural area of appalachia. My grandparents were dead by the time I was born, but one old man in the family sort of replaced them as the "fount of simple wisdom" that is so needed in every family. Bob was a farmer. He was born in about 1900-1910, so he'd seen much change in the world (and that tends to lend wisdom, I think).

He used to say "a mule in the field isn't a mule, it's just a hole for hay. Put hames on him," he'd say (hames are part of a harness), "and he becomes a mule again."

Wisdom always has a parallel in every aspect of life. It's one way to assure it's wisdom, and not merely a nice sounding saying.

A Dom isn't a Dom without a sub, but the "domness" is still there (if it really is there) waiting for the "harness," so to speak.