if i had a signifigantother and in an open relastionship, i would disucss it with her ato see how she felt, but i would also know that my signifigant otherwould have thesame feelings and beliefs that i do or we probably would not be together to startwith, do i think cybering is cheating, no there si not physical contact and to me you have to have physical contatct to cal it chearting, but this is only my belief, to my cybering is fantasy nothing more nothing less if it became RL then yes it would be cheating because phyiscal contact would be involved to me the key is physical contact