We all draw the line in different places.

There are plenty of women, and you read about it in a variety of info sources, who still object to their spouses interacting with magazines, videos, strip bars, and all of the previously mentioned 'non-cheating' activities. They claim it's no different.

So it's a little disconcerting to see all of that kind of intolerance here at this site...

I don't mind statements like "I feel cheated when xyz happens."
No, we're seeing "It is cheating when xyz happens."

Perhaps I'm guilty of the same phraseology on other topics...