I'd Hope they would Realize they had reaped what they had sewn?....pehaps a bit to late depending?....but none the less. There is Lessons in everything for those willing to Learn isn't there?
Vanilla Partner's, LifeStyle Partner's, whatever Style Partner's...if one does not give enough to that Relationship esp because one is involved in other O/L or RT ITF Relationship's, one WILL eventually lose That Relationship. A consequence of irresponsibility I believe. If one cannot Manage more than one Relationship successfully, perhaps it's a good idea not to have or create more than one can Manage Time and Quality for?
Everyone makes their Choices. Even not Choosing is a Choice.
Respectfully~SidheWolf